Dear Don Chase & Sarah: My wife’s birthday is Friday. I bought her yoga pants and a little black dress in sizes that are too small for her to wear. Her New Year’s resolution was to exercise more. She hasn’t lifted a finger so I thought buying clothing in a smaller size would motivate her to lose weight and get to the gym. My friends on my bowling team think I made a great decision while my twin sisters think it’s terrible. What do you think of my gift? Motivating or not? Insensitive or not? Brilliant or not?