Dear Don Chase & Sarah: My husband and I watch our grandkids several days a week after they get out of school. Today, I promised to take the kids toStarbucks to get them Pumpkin Spice Lattes. My husband is mad because our kids told us that the grandchildren cannot have any sugary snacks or drinks. I told the kids it would be our secret. They often tell white lies to their parents when questioned about the things we do together. My husband says I’m wrong for keeping secrets with our grandchildren. I say it’s just a grandmother spoiling her grandchildren. Is it wrong what I am doing? No one’s getting hurt so who cares. My husband says I’m teaching the kids to lie and be deceitful.