Dear Don Chase & Sarah: I saw a commercial last night for Tom Hanks’ new Mr. Rogers movie. It reminded me of the way my husbandparents our children. He’s just like Mr Rogers. Cool, calm and collected. I, on the other hand, am old school and will spank my children if they get out of line. My husband says spanking is wrong and outdated. He says speaking to children with a calm tone is better because it educates them and teaches them right from wrong. I disagree and think it sends no message whatsoever. Who’s right… Me or my husband?