Dear Don & Sarah: I’m single, college educated and fairly good looking. Yesterday, I was humming the Bad Boys song because I saw a commercial for Will Smith and Martin Lawrence’s new movie. It got me thinking … why do women like Bad Boys? Every time that I go out I see an attractive woman with a guy that looks like a loser. I’m frustrated because I have a good job, treat women well and still can’t get a good date. I thought about changing who I am, but that wouldn’t really be me. Why are women attracted to Bad Boys? What am I doing wrong?