Dear Don Chase & Sarah: I just started a new job that pays great and is close to my home. Yesterday, I received a Facebook friend request from my boss. I ignored it. At the end of the day, our HR Director said the company requires that all employees be friends with the boss. I told her that I disagree with the policy and don’t mix business and pleasure. I think it’s wrong that he is checking up on me. She said I will have to discuss it with him. I said the policy is an invasion of my privacy. She said it’s not. Who’s right .. me or her?