Scotty McCreery Proves It’s Never Too Late To Follow Your Dreams

Author Don Chase

February 28th 7:59 AM

Scotty McCreery performs at the 2023 Country Kick-Off Concert at Skydeck at Assembly Food Hall in Nashville, Tennessee. (Photo by Danielle Del Valle/Getty Images)

From Country star Scotty McCreery, “it’s never too late to follow your dreams. Some people think it’s too late to follow your heart when you’re 30. That’s not true. You can chase your dreams at any age. You can wake up one day at 65 and say I’m gonna open that ice cream parlor I’ve always wanted to. There’s nothing stopping you.”

For many years now, every time I hear someone say they are too old or that it is too late, I remember the story of Ray Kroc. Ray Kroc is the man that made McDonalds a household name. What many people do not know is that Ray Kroc bought McDonalds when he was 52 years old. Now, for lots of people, at age 52, they may be thinking that their best years are behind them. Not for Ray Kroc. He was just getting started.

A while back I read the inspiring story of Nicola Griffin. Nicola is a mother to twin daughters and after they graduated high school and then college, she decided to pursue one of her dreams and goals of being a model. She got busy and later was featured in the Sports Illustrated Swimsuit issue.

Most recently, my wife Debbie suffered an on-the-job injury. In a huge turn of events that we never saw coming, the company she worked for eliminated her position. She decided at that moment to turn that negative into a positive. At 62 years of age, she went back to college and earned an Associate Degree in Business Administration and Marketing. Now, she has a new career direction and could not be any happier.

So, as you go through your day, remember the words of Country star Scotty McCreery, “it’s never too late to follow your dreams.”

Go get ’em tiger! God don’t make no junk. You, yes you are awesome! Now go be awesome!

– Don Chase’s Kick Butt Tip of the Day is a daily motivational feature designed to give you the inspiration you need to power through your day. Check out all the Kick Butt Tips here.

Don Chase is living out his dreams, anchoring The Big Wake-Up with Don Chase & Sarah weekday mornings on KML. With over 35 years with Beasley Media, Don believes that the best is yet to come. The unofficial Mayor of Fayetteville radio, Don Chase writes about Fayetteville and North Carolina news, as well as entertaining perspectives on music, culture and more.

Ways to Be Instantly More Attractive in the Dating Game

Dating is nothing like it was a few decades ago. Heck, dating isn’t anything like it was even just a few years ago, with all the different dating apps and online ways to find love. But, one thing hasn’t changed: People still want to be appealing. They want to put their best foot forward in the dating world. So, what are some ways to be more attractive and appealing when you’re on a date?

Actually, this list works even if you’re not looking to date or are already are in a long-term relationship. Why not be as attractive as possible just for yourself? I’m not just talking about the physical, either. There’s so much more to being an appealing person than looks alone. Dictionary.com has some definitions of attractive that show the broadness of this term. They say the word means “providing pleasure or delight, especially in appearance or manner” and add that words such as “pleasing, charming and alluring” all apply. They also use the word in the context of having “an attractive personality” or “arousing interest or engaging one’s thought” and “consideration.”

Of course, not all definitions are so broad. Some do come down to appearance and vanity. Vocabulary.com defines it as, “Anybody or anything that’s attractive is visually pleasing or draws you in.” They add that it also has to deal with attracting others, of course, and that, “for people, being attractive usually means you’re beautiful or handsome enough to pull in the attention of others.”

That said, in this list, I’m really focusing on ways to be an all-around attractive person. This is largely not a list about how to be physically prettier or more handsome. Sure, some of these tips are physical. But, for the most part, these are ways to be instantly attractive in the dating game and a more appealing person overall.

Be interested in the other person
This one might seem odd. If you’re trying to attract someone, why would you try to focus on them? But, it works. People like to feeling like the person their with is actually interested in them. It helps you actually be an attractive person if it isn’t always about you and if you focus on your partner, date or friend.

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Be comfortable
Sure, you want to look good on your date. But, if you’re wearing heels that are too high or pants that look cool but just don’t fit, you might be uncomfortable, and that will make the other person uncomfortable. “The most important thing is that you feel comfortable in what you are wearing. If you are not comfortable, it will show in your body language and your date will be able to tell,” says Houseofcoco.net.

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Be confident
Everyone always talks about confidence being attractive, and they’re not wrong. Being confident in yourself is a very attractive quality. You don’t need to be an egomaniac or anything, though. No bragging fests on a first date. Just, be confident in who you are and in the spectacular, rock star of a person that God created you to be.

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Be yourself
This goes along with confidence. Just be you, because nobody else can be you. “As cheesy as it sounds, the most important thing you can do on a date is to look and act like your authentic self,” notes Southerntide.com.

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Smell nice
This is a tricky one. I’m not a big fan of perfume. But, it’s good to smell nice on a date. That said, do not – I repeat, to not – overdue it. There’s really no bigger turnoff than someone who smells like they just took a dive into a pool of really strong perfume or cologne. Less is more.

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Smile
Show off those pearly whites! Something as simple as smiling can make you instantly appear attractive, because it implies that you’re happy on both the outside and inside. No RBF, please. Smiling is contiguous, too, in the best possible way.

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Display good posture
Your mom was right when she told you to sit up straight. “Slouching makes you look unconfident and bored, neither of which are attractive qualities,” notes Houseofcoco.net. “Sit up straight and make sure your shoulders are back. It will make you look more confident and alert, two qualities that are sure to impress your date.”

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Have fun
Dating and socializing is supposed to be fun. Humans were meant to be together in a community, and that’s a good thing. So, just have fun on your date. Be playful. Laugh. Flirt. Wink. Okay, maybe don’t wink. That’s creepy. But, you can send a wink emoji. Simply have fun.

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