Kick Butt Tip: Shania Twain – Forgive, Don’t Hate
Today’s Kick Butt Tip of the day comes from Shania Twain. “Forgive. Don’t Hate.”
Let’s begin by asking, could you ever forgive your husband for having an affair with a really good friend of yours?
That scenario actually happened to Country singer Shania Twain. The year was 2008 when the entertainment world was rocked with the news of Shania and her husband Mutt Lange were separating. Somehow, details of just what took place did not surface for another 7 years.
Eileen Regina Edwards, better known as Shania Twain told the “Great Company With Jamie Laing” podcast that her husband Mutt Lange and Shania’s really close friend Marie-Anne Thiebaud were having an affair. Like Shania and Mutt, Marie-Anne was also married at the time.
In an unbelievable turn of events, after Shania and Mutt divorced in 2011, Shania fell in love with Marie-Anne’s ex-husband Frederic. The two tied the knot in 2011 and Shania says the two are still happily married.
At this point of her career, Shania says that she has learned how to forgive her ex for what happened. Shania also says that there is no hate in her heart. Shania says to “forgive don’t hate”
If you happen to be wondering about Shania’s relationship with her former best friend Marie-Anne, Shania says, “I don’t see her, ever. I don’t invite that trigger into my life. She’s not my future. She’s my past.”
Shania says that when it comes to her ex Mutt, that she is “so sad for him that he made such a great mistake that he has to live with. And I don’t know what that is, but it’s not, that’s not my weight.”
To listen to the entire Great Company With Jamie Laing podcast with Shania, click here.
Is Is Possible To Forgive A Cheater
If you are wondering, is there truly a way that I can forgive my spouse for cheating on me? Yes there is. There are no overnight solutions, but step by step and day by day, you can succeed. Like Shania, you can find a way to forgive and not hate.
If you or someone you know is dealing with the challenge of forgiving a cheating spouse, click here for a link that may be helpful.
Forgive don’t hate.
Go get ’em tiger! God don’t make no junk. You, yes you are awesome! Now go be awesome!
– Don Chase’s Kick Butt Tip of the Day is a daily motivational feature designed to give you the inspiration you need to power through your day. Check out all the Kick Butt Tips here.
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